"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im in europe and found HB who wants it bad!!

unamean

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So I'm visiting some of my family in Romania and my cousins introduced me to a friend of hers who is really hott!!! Her name is Laura Anyway we've been out together as a group a couple of times this past week and my cousin told me that she wants to F**K an American!!! So last night Laura, her Friend and I go out to a nice lounge/club to have some drinks. As we're hanging out her friend reveals that she works for a internet porn company as a video chat girl!!!! The whole night all these girls talk about is sex, bj's, and more sex. At this point Laura is giving me all the classic IOI's, eye contact, fingers through the hair, LOTS of kino etc. I'm playing it cool the whole time, just relaxing sipping on my drink. We leave and she drives my cousin and I back to the house. At which point I go in for the goodnight kiss and she puts her tongue down my throat!! I told her that I would call her tommorow and arrange to go out to lunch.
The dilemma: I know this girl is a bad girl. I know she is older than me and has had lots of expierence. Me on the other hand have very minimal experience, and it will def show. I know that she will talk to her friend and my cousins about it and I dont know what to do... Do I go ahead and bang this girl tommorow, or do I try to find some other girl who has no ties with my cousins?? Help!!!!! I just dont want to look like a chump in front of my family who i've only met once in my life.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if you don't bang her, then there will be no doubt in your cousins eyes that you are a chump...seriously, who cares what she would say, the last thing you want to happen is going back to the US and regretting passing up pvssy
 

Cinamon

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Tell her you like to be dominated by women and let her take the lead and you follow. That way, your lack of experience may appear as submissiveness and she may not pick up on it.
 

LyteOrchestra

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ya cinamon, you're a f*ckin genius... unless you of course realize that 99% of women are hugely turned off by submissive males.

be a man, dominate, and get your **** done, that means banging her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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worship

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DON'T listen to Cinamon, LOL.

LyteOrchestra has the right idea.
 

Son of anarchy

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Tell her that you like to be dominated from women?? LOL
The next suggestion what is gonna be? to invite her in an expensive place,talk her about your family and ask about her and buy some flowers,and be sure to avoid flirting or touch...you know its bad! ahahahahahaha
 

Cinamon

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worship said:
DON'T listen to Cinamon, LOL.

LyteOrchestra has the right idea.
Hey listen, I am a woman, and I think there is something sexy about a man confident enough to let a woman dominate him. Any excuse to pull out the PVC cat suit with a tail that doubles up as a whip.... purrh!!!!
 

Son of anarchy

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Cinamon said:
Hey listen, I am a woman, and I think there is something sexy about a man confident enough to let a woman dominate him. Any excuse to pull out the PVC cat suit with a tail that doubles up as a whip.... purrh!!!!
Oh well if you are a woman so everything change!
My auntie told me many times that she as women like men who buy her flowers,never touch or kiss her without asking and of course give her attentions everytime everywhere.
It's strange that my auntie always sleep with men who dont do anything of that while avoid/take advantage/have fun with friends about men who do.
Do we have to believe to words or to facts? :whistle:
 

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Bad Cinamon! Go back in your corner and wait for your spanking.

Unamean,

Don't worry what the girl thinks. You want her, she wants you. In fact she wants you bad. Has there been anything you've wanted to try with a girl, that you haven't done before. If so, go for it.

I think us guys overthink this crap. Boy likes girl, Girl likes boy. F*ck like rabbits. Follow nature, your inner self, and the basic, primal programming in your genes and f*ck the girl.

There's a lot of advice, proceduce, and tequnique that gets passed around here. This is simple. Escalate (check) Isolate and Sex. Just get her alone somewhere and do whatever you want. Do what you want.

Nerves can be a serious problem in this type of scenario, and its what you are feeling. I recommend alcohol in a moderate amount. You should know how much it takes to get you a little relaxed without being drunk or sloppy. So have a drink or 2 at lunch, whatever it takes to chill out.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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EdwardGrey

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So you got a certified HB that wants you to bang her brains out and the 1st thing you do is log onto the internet, to ask if you should ???? :confused:
 

pua1989

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are you even a man????? just pound that püssy!!!!!! this certifies it in my mind, every buddy of mine that goes to romania has the same kind of experience. thats my next stop
 

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There's something messed up when a girl is all over you and you turn that **** down.

Sometimes I wonder if there's any hope
 

DJDamage

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unamean said:
I know she is older than me and has had lots of expierence. Me on the other hand have very minimal experience, and it will def show.
How does one gain experiences? by having experiences!

You are just visiting right?! so even if the sex turns out lousy, who cares?! you gained an experience and had a good time.

Just make sure you wrap it up!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Confident enough to be submissive? What type of logic is that? If you're confident you don't want to be submissive ..... anti-logic
 

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Let me point something out. Your cousin said this girl "wants to fvck an American" which means more than likely she never has. This should take pressure off you for two reasones: 1. She's fufilling a fantasy, so odds are she is going to be into it. 2. She doesn't know what an American fvcks like. So if she is really disappointed afterwards you just chalk it up to cultural differences and say something to the effect of "girls can't get enough of this back home".

Only thing to watch out for, most Europeans can drink us under the table. Its a fact. Moderate your consumption of alchohol the night of, lest the melty man comes for a visit.
 

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You'll be kicking yourself if you don't do it. Your cousin is indirectly trying to hook you up. This hot girl is being handed to you on a silver platter. There is nothing more to think about. Just give her the hot Yankee action she craves.
 
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