"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm in a slump

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So I'm 10 weeks into my first year at uni.

And I'm finding things pretty tough lady wise. I've gotten half a dozen numbers, but EVERY SINGLE ONE has a boyfriend, but neglected to inform me first. Yep, they somehow lost interest between me getting the number and calling them. Yikes, I think I'm just having a bad period :crackup:

But I'm also finding it hard to find someone I "click" with. I meet a fair few girls every day (it's a big course), but they're either taken, flakey, nuts, stereotypically mallgirlish, or any other irritating adjective.

Haha, yes, I'm picky. Maybe I shouldn't be.

Part of the problem is that I don't fit in. Anywhere. Not that this is a bad thing, I quite enjoy the nomadicism, but finding someone similar is no mean feat. There's the music hurdle, then the geek hurdle, then the surfer hurdle :crackup:

I'm pretty confident in myself, I've been reading and working on this for nearly 2 years now, and I have my fair share of tools of the trade. But I have very, VERY little experience pass making out. This gives me unnecessary nervousness also.

Eh, this post is mostly cathartic. Hopefully, someone reading this, having stopped their fingers typing "Just go and get laid already" or "Read the Bible retard", could offer something. Or not, at least I've sorted my mind out.

I dno what the next step will be. Lowering my standards? Not likely, I'm a perfectionist and ambitious. Settling for someone just to rid myself of the "virgin" moniker? More likey, but still less likely than snow in hell (one of the WARM rings :crackup: ).

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well back when I was in university I remember dating a girl after 2 days. During our first few weeks there were constant parties and women were everywhere. I find it hard to believe that a bunch of the women have BFs simply because of the distance. My school was 3 hours from home.

I'd clarify a simple question to your conversation you have with them.
"Where is home?". If they say something like 2-3 hours away - your in...
If they say I live at home with my parents then they potentially have a BF around in the same boat.

I think your in is playing the Long Distance card. We all know that it doesn't work so there should be all kinds of women breaking up with their LD BFs in first year.
 
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Who said I was long distance? I live 10 mins by car away from uni.

Your post didn't make much sense, sorry man :(
 
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