"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in a predicament

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bud_2005

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There is this girl that I like who I am taking to prom. Prom is about a month and a half away. I want to date her but I'm afraid that we may date and then it will turn sour which would equal a really uncomfortable prom night. What would u do in my situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If it turns sour you find someone else to take to prom, or go alone or don't go... *shrugs*. It's still worth trying.

If you're thinking of delaying the asking out until near prom so it doesn't sour, I wouldn't. Better to sour it before than later.
 
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you're thinking too far into it. More than likely, she's probably thinking that too, so she'll try to make it last. Plus, why would it go sour?
 
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Well if I find out she's not interested in me then prom night won't be as fun as expected.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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