"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm in a predicament

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bud_2005

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There is this girl that I like who I am taking to prom. Prom is about a month and a half away. I want to date her but I'm afraid that we may date and then it will turn sour which would equal a really uncomfortable prom night. What would u do in my situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If it turns sour you find someone else to take to prom, or go alone or don't go... *shrugs*. It's still worth trying.

If you're thinking of delaying the asking out until near prom so it doesn't sour, I wouldn't. Better to sour it before than later.
 
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you're thinking too far into it. More than likely, she's probably thinking that too, so she'll try to make it last. Plus, why would it go sour?
 
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Well if I find out she's not interested in me then prom night won't be as fun as expected.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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