"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im in a confusing friend zone situation

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Alright so ive known this girl a year and a half.... we were never really close until
a couple months ago when we started hanging out together.. going to nightclubs etc

She broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago and i went out with her to cheer her up and ended up bringing her back to my place and ****ing her.

Now shes still extremely flirty with me, kissing etc but im not getting any sex. Was sleeping with her in her bed last night and she said that "She doesn't want to ruin the friendship we have because im one of the few guys she can connect with" .
How do i get out the friend zone and into the ***** zone ?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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judoguy said:
Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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Ah well... she was a sh*t lay anyways...
 
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judoguy said:
Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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If you want her for a girlfriend, start dating other women, and flaunt them in front of her. Odds are her female instincts will surface, and she wont be able to handle seeing you with another woman.
 
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pingpongz said:
Alright so ive known this girl a year and a half.... we were never really close until
a couple months ago when we started hanging out together.. going to nightclubs etc

She broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago and i went out with her to cheer her up and ended up bringing her back to my place and ****ing her.

Now shes still extremely flirty with me, kissing etc but im not getting any sex. Was sleeping with her in her bed last night and she said that "She doesn't want to ruin the friendship we have because im one of the few guys she can connect with" .
How do i get out the friend zone and into the ***** zone ?
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You did not f her properly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Being the rebound material, i feel i should step in:cool:

...but yea Judoguy and Jack took the words right out of my mouth.

You said you guys werent that close to begin with right? Say peace out to this breezy.
 
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