"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im in a confusing friend zone situation

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pingpongz

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Alright so ive known this girl a year and a half.... we were never really close until
a couple months ago when we started hanging out together.. going to nightclubs etc

She broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago and i went out with her to cheer her up and ended up bringing her back to my place and ****ing her.

Now shes still extremely flirty with me, kissing etc but im not getting any sex. Was sleeping with her in her bed last night and she said that "She doesn't want to ruin the friendship we have because im one of the few guys she can connect with" .
How do i get out the friend zone and into the ***** zone ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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judoguy said:
Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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Ah well... she was a sh*t lay anyways...
 
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judoguy said:
Your done dude. Sorry.


You were her friend that she knew alaways wanted her. She broke up with her boyfriend and was in an emotional needed state so she ****ed you as a rebound. She wanted to feel attractive and sexual again after her and her boyfriend broke up. You were the perfect target. She knew you could make her feel better.

Now that she knows she is indeed pretty and can get guys. She put you back in the friendzone by giving you some bull**** line. She hopes you will stay there while she gets her brains banged out by some other dude. Then when they break up hopefully she can call on you to make herself feel better.

If you want to be that guy then hang around, if not, go out and meet other chicks. You had your fun but its over dude.


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If you want her for a girlfriend, start dating other women, and flaunt them in front of her. Odds are her female instincts will surface, and she wont be able to handle seeing you with another woman.
 
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pingpongz said:
Alright so ive known this girl a year and a half.... we were never really close until
a couple months ago when we started hanging out together.. going to nightclubs etc

She broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago and i went out with her to cheer her up and ended up bringing her back to my place and ****ing her.

Now shes still extremely flirty with me, kissing etc but im not getting any sex. Was sleeping with her in her bed last night and she said that "She doesn't want to ruin the friendship we have because im one of the few guys she can connect with" .
How do i get out the friend zone and into the ***** zone ?
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You did not f her properly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Being the rebound material, i feel i should step in:cool:

...but yea Judoguy and Jack took the words right out of my mouth.

You said you guys werent that close to begin with right? Say peace out to this breezy.
 
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