I'm hurting her and she deserves to know.

[danielcooper]

Before I met my girlfriend, I have been seeing a woman who is very ideal for me. She is very fun to talk with. We share the same interest--- favorite books, food and music. Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had. We have been chatting for two years and ended it that way. Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend. She’s sweet, caring and loving too but we don’t share the same interest at all. Well… except for the food. We both are into a foreign taste. I can’t help but think about the previous woman everytime we are together. Sometimes, I even feel bad that we ended the way I never expected. I thought I have forgotten about her but I guess not. My girlfriend, who doesn’t have the slightest idea about the previous woman, deserves to know about this, so I’m gonna tell her.

 

[KingofPuss]

Dude, what? You're crazy. You never had ANYTHING with the previous girl. The grass is always greener. It sounds like you need to ditch this girl, but the previous one isn't for you either. If you couldnt seal the deal in two years of chatting, give it up now.

Find a new woman entirely. I would just keep banging this one until you find the next, but that's just what I'd do.

 

[Desdinova]

Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had.

That's what she told you, but the truth was she didn't want a serious relationship with you.

Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend. She’s sweet, caring and loving too but we don’t share the same interest at all. Well… except for the food.

You don't always need same interests to have a successful relationship. When you wanna do your own thing, just do it. Having different interests gives you things to talk about. She may show interested in the things you do and start becoming involved. A good woman will take your life as hers.

My girlfriend, who doesn’t have the slightest idea about the previous woman, deserves to know about this, so I’m gonna tell her.

Why does she deserves to know this? Do you deserve to know about the previous d1ck that she enjoyed sucking?

 

[soulforge]

Dude what the fuk is wrong with you..You don't need to tell the current girl chit.

Just simply end it if you feel no connection with her.. Why does she need to know about some chick from your distant past, who you didn't seal the deal with.

Don't give us this CRAP about SHE DESERVES It.

She deserves to know, that you value the previous chick more than you value her?

Are you for real.. OP is making out he is doing this for the goodness of his current girl.

You wana get your dik wet elsewhere? Your not feeling it with current chick? End it with her and move on.

Stop playing the good samaratin!

 

[Glassguy]

OP just joined today and it is his first post.

Troll.

 

[MrJack]

Before I met my girlfriend, I have been seeing a woman who is very ideal for me. She is very fun to talk with. We share the same interest--- favorite books, food and music. Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had. We have been chatting for two years and ended it that way. Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend. She’s sweet, caring and loving too but we don’t share the same interest at all. Well… except for the food. We both are into a foreign taste. I can’t help but think about the previous woman everytime we are together. Sometimes, I even feel bad that we ended the way I never expected. I thought I have forgotten about her but I guess not. My girlfriend, who doesn’t have the slightest idea about the previous woman, deserves to know about this, so I’m gonna tell her.

She deserves to know what? That you have an ex girlfriend and you think about her sometimes? Are you TRYING to drive the new girl away with pointless jealousy? Lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Before I met my girlfriend, I have been seeing a woman who is very ideal for me. She is very fun to talk with. We share the same interest--- favorite books, food and music. Despite everything, she’s not ready for a serious relationship and decided to end whatever we had. We have been chatting for two years and ended it that way. Months after, I met this girl who is now my girlfriend. She’s sweet, caring and loving too but we don’t share the same interest at all. Well… except for the food. We both are into a foreign taste. I can’t help but think about the previous woman everytime we are together. Sometimes, I even feel bad that we ended the way I never expected. I thought I have forgotten about her but I guess not. My girlfriend, who doesn’t have the slightest idea about the previous woman, deserves to know about this, so I’m gonna tell her.

Men have fvcking up the past twenty years for trying to share too much be too open with their women. Also by caring too much what they think.

 

[RangerMIke]

Not sure the purpose of the OP's post, but welcome. For what it is worth, here is my advice.

Ask yourself what you hope to achieve with your 'confession' then ask yourself if this result is worth the risk. If the answer is yes to both questions then just go ahead and tell her.

But I think your overall problem is that you are too focused on locking down chicks in 'relationships' and as a result you dumped a chick you like because she didn't want a relationship, and ended up with a chick you do not like as much because she was willing to go along with the label. I don;t know man... this is so far from the way I think about dating that I do not know what to say... But it's never a good place to approach dating as a relationship hunt, you should date to have fun... then let the chicks decide if they want to lock you down... if that never happens, well so be it. But you are turning something that should be fun, into work... don't you have enough 'work' in your life already?

 

[Atom Smasher]

I suspect a troll, and I think he deserves to know...

 

[Bible_Belt]

Posted across multiple forums, probably a bot.

Here's one of those forums, looks like a sosuave imitation: http://forums.dateolicious.com/

 

[soulforge]

I suspect a troll, and I think he deserves to know...

I need to get this off my chest too.. It's eating away at me.. OP deserves to know that truth!

I seriously suspect a troll.

 

[Von]

I suspect a troll, and I think he deserves to know...

Foreign affair bot.

He mentions "foreign taste"

He mentions "chatting for 2 years"

He mentions "book,food,music"

Everything points at "a foreign girlfriend"

 

[soulforge]

Meh Toll confirmed

 

[Atom Smasher]

A big shout-out to @Bible_Belt who excels at routing out the trolls.

 

[Glassguy]

I suspect a troll, and I think he deserves to know...

ban him

 

[marmel75]

Go for it bro. White Knighting at it's finest.