I'm having trouble creating attraction.

[Stéphane]

Hi, i'm recently new to the forums, and i'm having a lot of trouble creating attraction between me, and women. I don't have any trouble approaching women, and I get the looks often, but I just can't seem to create attraction.

What I usualy do is, try to build rapport between me, and women then I throw in a ****y, and funny line. When I meet a woman I ask logical questions, then I try to switch to emotional questions, but that doesn't seem to be enough to attract women.

What am I doing wrong do I need to build sexual tension right off the bat, and how do you do it?

Also, in clubs I have a different problem, I can approach women easily, and dance with them, but I can never get them to leave with me.

Thanks, I hope I can find some useful advice.

 

[yep]

Try to be more specific. Give an example of a conversation that would go on with a women in this format.
Me-
Her-
Me-
Her-
ect....

Then we can address the sexual tension.

 

[Stéphane]

Me: Hey, I was sitting over there, and noticed you were sitting alone, and I was just wanted to say hi.
Me: What your name?
Her: I'm girl
Me: I'm guy
Me: Where you from?
Her: Campbelton
Me: Oh, how long you been here for, and how you enjoying it so far?
Her: It's been around 3 weeks, it's alright.
Me: What do you do for fun, what kind of hobbies you have?
Her: I read a lot.
Me: So, your a nerd uh?
*gigle
Me: Anyways, I g2g nice talkign to you.

This is fictional, but it usualy goes like that...

 

[DJVladdy]

yea well u ejected yourself from the interaction... just small talk. So what did u expect

 

[Stéphane]

I don't ask for there number, because I don't feel like i'm creating enough attraction. What do you guys suggest?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

http://www.sosuave.com/romance/david/art118.htm