"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm having trouble creating attraction.

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Hi, i'm recently new to the forums, and i'm having a lot of trouble creating attraction between me, and women. I don't have any trouble approaching women, and I get the looks often, but I just can't seem to create attraction.

What I usualy do is, try to build rapport between me, and women then I throw in a ****y, and funny line. When I meet a woman I ask logical questions, then I try to switch to emotional questions, but that doesn't seem to be enough to attract women.

What am I doing wrong do I need to build sexual tension right off the bat, and how do you do it?

Also, in clubs I have a different problem, I can approach women easily, and dance with them, but I can never get them to leave with me.

Thanks, I hope I can find some useful advice.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Try to be more specific. Give an example of a conversation that would go on with a women in this format.
Me-
Her-
Me-
Her-
ect....

Then we can address the sexual tension.
 
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Me: Hey, I was sitting over there, and noticed you were sitting alone, and I was just wanted to say hi.
Me: What your name?
Her: I'm girl
Me: I'm guy
Me: Where you from?
Her: Campbelton
Me: Oh, how long you been here for, and how you enjoying it so far?
Her: It's been around 3 weeks, it's alright.
Me: What do you do for fun, what kind of hobbies you have?
Her: I read a lot.
Me: So, your a nerd uh?
*gigle
Me: Anyways, I g2g nice talkign to you.

This is fictional, but it usualy goes like that...
 
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yea well u ejected yourself from the interaction... just small talk. So what did u expect
 
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I don't ask for there number, because I don't feel like i'm creating enough attraction. What do you guys suggest?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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