"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm handsome but i have no game......

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I've being surfing this forum for a while and i decided i want to be a part of this great community, so welcome me.:cool:

Anyway, like the title states, I have NO Game. All my life i've been relying on looks to get me sex and unfortunately it has ended ever since i turned fifteen, girls above this age just doesn't want to give it up that easily. I'm not all about sex so don't go ripping on me.

There's five hot girls in my school who likes me and i know this for sure but don't know how to approach a girl when i know she likes me. This is just one of my many problems. I'm having difficulties choosing also. Whenever i know a girl likes me, even though i've never talked with her, it's hard for me to like hit on other girls.:mad:

Really need your support here brothers...
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Read the bible and learn to flirt. That's all of the game in a sentence, because Game is based on different techniques of flirting.

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First, work on your English a little bit.

Second, just talk to the girls like you've been friends with them for years. Joke around with em, tease em, invite them places, get their number etc. If you just start talking as if you've known them your whole life, you'll both feel much more at ease.
 

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Thanks guys, these tips will really helped but the thing is as some as I step away from the internet it's like all ground zero again. i'll approach one monday, hope i don't die.

I corrected the grammar errors, i was in a rush....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Docs said:
Read the bible and learn to flirt. That's all of the game in a sentence, because Game is based on different techniques of flirting.

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Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
 

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SamRi72 said:
Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
O the DJ Bible. Can someone link me to that?
 

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SamRi72 said:
O the DJ Bible. Can someone link me to that?
:crackup:

Sorry just thought that one was a little funny. Anyway my suggestions would be to stop focusing on knowing who likes and doesn't like you. You should be focusing on the fact that she'd be crazy not to like you. You know your attractive, so apply that knowledge. Since you already have good looks, you have an extra leg up on most guys. It means that you get more opportunities to create attraction.

Focus on your positive attributes, pick a few potential girls, and have some fun. Remember, talking to girls isnt a chore, its a challenge.
 

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SamRi72 said:
Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
You won't get anywhere without knowledge....bottom screen = bible.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Truly great tips guys, i have these three girls playing with me and i do nothing. They the hottest in the school too.:mad:

Guess i'm gonna have to approach tomorrow, i can't say tomorrow forever....
 

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ok bro since you are a new dj, this is what you do.
Read the dj bible, join a dj boot camp, study the art of djing relentlessly and with all your dedication. After you have read all the possible tips on approaching, kino, body language, convo and closing-getting the number. Go out onto the field and practice, after you can get the numbers. Then you can start dating. This will take you at least half a year, so better hurry.
Tip:askmen.com is a great site, also you may want to download double your dating by david.something.
 
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