"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm handsome but i have no game......

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I've being surfing this forum for a while and i decided i want to be a part of this great community, so welcome me.:cool:

Anyway, like the title states, I have NO Game. All my life i've been relying on looks to get me sex and unfortunately it has ended ever since i turned fifteen, girls above this age just doesn't want to give it up that easily. I'm not all about sex so don't go ripping on me.

There's five hot girls in my school who likes me and i know this for sure but don't know how to approach a girl when i know she likes me. This is just one of my many problems. I'm having difficulties choosing also. Whenever i know a girl likes me, even though i've never talked with her, it's hard for me to like hit on other girls.:mad:

Really need your support here brothers...
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read the bible and learn to flirt. That's all of the game in a sentence, because Game is based on different techniques of flirting.

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First, work on your English a little bit.

Second, just talk to the girls like you've been friends with them for years. Joke around with em, tease em, invite them places, get their number etc. If you just start talking as if you've known them your whole life, you'll both feel much more at ease.
 

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Thanks guys, these tips will really helped but the thing is as some as I step away from the internet it's like all ground zero again. i'll approach one monday, hope i don't die.

I corrected the grammar errors, i was in a rush....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Docs said:
Read the bible and learn to flirt. That's all of the game in a sentence, because Game is based on different techniques of flirting.

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Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
 

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SamRi72 said:
Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
O the DJ Bible. Can someone link me to that?
 

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SamRi72 said:
O the DJ Bible. Can someone link me to that?
:crackup:

Sorry just thought that one was a little funny. Anyway my suggestions would be to stop focusing on knowing who likes and doesn't like you. You should be focusing on the fact that she'd be crazy not to like you. You know your attractive, so apply that knowledge. Since you already have good looks, you have an extra leg up on most guys. It means that you get more opportunities to create attraction.

Focus on your positive attributes, pick a few potential girls, and have some fun. Remember, talking to girls isnt a chore, its a challenge.
 

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SamRi72 said:
Lol I have game problems too. Confidence at max, looks are aight, but I didnt learn about game until two weeks ago and I'm a senior in high school. I LMAOed at the above clip though, because
A. Read the bible seems really irrelevant to game
B. I'm Jewish
You won't get anywhere without knowledge....bottom screen = bible.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Truly great tips guys, i have these three girls playing with me and i do nothing. They the hottest in the school too.:mad:

Guess i'm gonna have to approach tomorrow, i can't say tomorrow forever....
 

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ok bro since you are a new dj, this is what you do.
Read the dj bible, join a dj boot camp, study the art of djing relentlessly and with all your dedication. After you have read all the possible tips on approaching, kino, body language, convo and closing-getting the number. Go out onto the field and practice, after you can get the numbers. Then you can start dating. This will take you at least half a year, so better hurry.
Tip:askmen.com is a great site, also you may want to download double your dating by david.something.
 
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