"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm gone from showing too much interest to showing none at all!

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silverwex

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Hey all,

Wow its been a long time since i posted here!

Anyway, i have a slight problem - since ive read lots and lots of posts on this site it has changed my preception of women in general.

My problem is that if i even think about showing interest in a girl ive met i say to myself 'No thats AFC. dont show interest - its weak!'. I know u must show interest to get places but it just feels afc to try it on with a girl now coz my fukin subconcious thinks its not alpha!

Anyone else experience this? And how do i strike the right balance?

Cheers.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thats sounds correct, if I may pontificate that whole "don't be aloof be indifferent" advice.

Aloof: Closed off from the world, anti-social, when taken to far. Aloof is usually not a good trait to have.

Indifferent: You See a 2 and a 10 and you treat both of them the same. You don't bow down, supplicate or compliment, but you do not give a cold shoulder or push them away when they seek you socially.

The best way to show interest is to talk about her. It aviods stupid compliments and you learn more about her which is usefull later of course.

Ask about her hobbies, what she does and even her day. You don't have to really listen but just seem like it, because trust me a lot of it is boring anyway.

-Grey Fox
 
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TRUST ME

If the rapport is there..........IGNORE them and they will come
 
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you can show intrest, but just dont over do it, and do not chase around after her do not be avalible etc. you must know this stuff beter then i do. basicly you can show intrest with out being AFC becuase an AFC would go to far and say i love you and chase her 24/7 but you, the DJ will subtly show her you like her and you will show her attention only osmetimes and not always be avalible and do not let ehr walk all over you im sure you get the picture now

hope iv been a help
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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