"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm going to have a Girlfriend by Next Monday

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Not this monday, but the following Monday.

Some bets were made and basically a friend's freedom and a few bucks sits in the balance.

I've got two girls lined up at the moment.

I'll keep you updated and ask for advice as required, I think I'm set though.

One wanted me to chew her already chewed gum (Might have some competition though.)

While the other is getting her friends to ask me if I like her.

Easy Money...I hope. :yawn:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You're not kidding are you.

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Chewing already chewed gum... what the **** is that ****.


and having her friends or your friends ask girls if they like you...

baaaaaaa naaaaaaaaaa :down: Epic Fail.
 
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and having her friends or your friends ask girls if they like you...
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yeah, my experience with that hasn't been good. It means she's a tad immature.

but what the hell, see what you can do, I guess. Just don't settle for a relationship with some low-class b1tch. Judge by more than her hotness.
 
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I remember I did someting like that.. IN THE ****ING 3RD GRADE!!!


So tell the mod's we need to add a "tot's pickup section".. because ovbiously the crowd here is getting Saturday morning cartoonish
 
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Alright, perhaps I didn't phrase it correctly. She didn't have her friend find out. But the friend asked?

And I decline on the gum.

Better?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually you don't want to plan for something like this. If you want to get a girl just go out and do it. Making a bet really a symptom that you can not motivate yourself by your own means to make that next step. Also planning and time frames for getting a girl is a sign of anxiety and deadlines more often then not are missed.

Live and let live, go with the flow, ride the wave... Making your game your natural state will do you much more sucessful and attractive then will anything else.
 
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