"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm going to have a Girlfriend by Next Monday

Alkali

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Not this monday, but the following Monday.

Some bets were made and basically a friend's freedom and a few bucks sits in the balance.

I've got two girls lined up at the moment.

I'll keep you updated and ask for advice as required, I think I'm set though.

One wanted me to chew her already chewed gum (Might have some competition though.)

While the other is getting her friends to ask me if I like her.

Easy Money...I hope. :yawn:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're not kidding are you.

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Chewing already chewed gum... what the **** is that ****.


and having her friends or your friends ask girls if they like you...

baaaaaaa naaaaaaaaaa :down: Epic Fail.
 

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and having her friends or your friends ask girls if they like you...
yeah, my experience with that hasn't been good. It means she's a tad immature.

but what the hell, see what you can do, I guess. Just don't settle for a relationship with some low-class b1tch. Judge by more than her hotness.
 

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I remember I did someting like that.. IN THE ****ING 3RD GRADE!!!


So tell the mod's we need to add a "tot's pickup section".. because ovbiously the crowd here is getting Saturday morning cartoonish
 

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Alright, perhaps I didn't phrase it correctly. She didn't have her friend find out. But the friend asked?

And I decline on the gum.

Better?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Usually you don't want to plan for something like this. If you want to get a girl just go out and do it. Making a bet really a symptom that you can not motivate yourself by your own means to make that next step. Also planning and time frames for getting a girl is a sign of anxiety and deadlines more often then not are missed.

Live and let live, go with the flow, ride the wave... Making your game your natural state will do you much more sucessful and attractive then will anything else.
 
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