"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm going to a black fraternity party next Friday even though I'm white, what to do?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mantis Toboggan said:
It's a bunch of college kids doing college kid stuff. You make it sound like you're walking into Compton.

What should you do? Drink. Have fun. Laugh.
exactly. you do the same thing you would do at a white fraternity party...drink, have fun with your friends and try to get laid
 

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BigJimbo said:
Eh, kinda reminds me of Brazilian Tv.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fyEawJBVR6w
Save for the fact that black folk don't go to college in Brazil.
I don't even speak Portuguese well, but I was laughing at some of the parts. What is the theme of that video? It seems like they put the Vo sticker on the attractive girls, and the Nem vou ones on the less attractive ones. The 0:40 part had me laughing!
 

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