"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm going out tonight...

Poonani Maker

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to a church get-together at 5:00 PM first. Won't know a soul, but it's a liberal church - dancing's allowed unlike My church. From there I'm going out for real to the clubs and listen to some good muzak/drink beer. Maybe I'll get pulled by a chick to lay her, maybe I won't get hit up by a chick. Either way, I'ma gonna have some fun tonight. Been working way too hard, specially since Christmas is steadily approaching. I deserve the poonani tonight! Wish me luck!

Also, in my second life, I'd be a gynaecologist. I'm happy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Awesome have fun tonight! I'm going out for a good one aswell... I also deserve the poonani :crackup:

I don't feel like waiting for a girl to hit on me though... I think I will hit on them instead, like I always do. :) :yes:
 

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Have Fun

Sounds like fun man, good luck! Just remember to wrap your tool, you dont know what those club girls got!
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Also, in my second life, I'd be a gynaecologist. I'm happy.
Good luck, but dont ever be a pvssy doctor. Would you really want to spend every day looking at yeasty, smelly, green, dripping, burning, evil . . . . you get the picture :eek:
 

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Dongfu said:
Good luck, but dont ever be a pvssy doctor. Would you really want to spend every day looking at yeasty, smelly, green, dripping, burning, evil . . . . you get the picture :eek:
Thanks for the memories dude...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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