"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm going out tonight...

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Right guys...
I haven't been out on the town for a little while now...

... I've decided I wanna go out tonight and I wanna at least k-close and number-close...

I haven't been out much lately and I know I'm slipping back into WUSS mode...
I'm doing this.. I WANT to go out... I WANT to come away without saying what a WUSS I am for not even trying...

Words of encouragement...? I don't need to read books and books here, I jst wanna go out to a club, have fun and k-close... how simple, right? Why does it seem so hard...?

Tips/encouragement?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Look your best and bring along a friend who looks up to you...
 
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Take a 2 hour nap before you get ready for your party and bring a wingman who is also ready to sarge on some hoes and love every second of it, little bit of beer helps here. And yes you really do need to read the Bible
 
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Well yeah, I mean, I know you need to read the bible I just mean I'm not looking to go over it ALL again in the next hour or two... I just wanna get in the right mood, know what I'm gonna do and say and just get out there....

Have something ready... be prepared or I know I'll just end up going home an AFC again....
 
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Espi said:
Neg, neg, neg.
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I'm learning the power of this little gem. Been doing a little field testing lately and this seems to really get the hotties' hooked. Just go out tonight bro and have a GOOD time. Smile and enjoy yourself. Be the guy that women look at and think is a cool guy. Make and keep EC with chicks. If you're just going out to sarge, get a buzz but don't get trashed. They're just women. Nothing to be scared of. I usually start off just casually talking to women. For me, it alleviates the pressure I feel when I'm going in for reasons other than convo.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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