"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm going out tonight...

TommiV

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Right guys...
I haven't been out on the town for a little while now...

... I've decided I wanna go out tonight and I wanna at least k-close and number-close...

I haven't been out much lately and I know I'm slipping back into WUSS mode...
I'm doing this.. I WANT to go out... I WANT to come away without saying what a WUSS I am for not even trying...

Words of encouragement...? I don't need to read books and books here, I jst wanna go out to a club, have fun and k-close... how simple, right? Why does it seem so hard...?

Tips/encouragement?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Look your best and bring along a friend who looks up to you...
 

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Take a 2 hour nap before you get ready for your party and bring a wingman who is also ready to sarge on some hoes and love every second of it, little bit of beer helps here. And yes you really do need to read the Bible
 

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Well yeah, I mean, I know you need to read the bible I just mean I'm not looking to go over it ALL again in the next hour or two... I just wanna get in the right mood, know what I'm gonna do and say and just get out there....

Have something ready... be prepared or I know I'll just end up going home an AFC again....
 

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Espi said:
Neg, neg, neg.
I'm learning the power of this little gem. Been doing a little field testing lately and this seems to really get the hotties' hooked. Just go out tonight bro and have a GOOD time. Smile and enjoy yourself. Be the guy that women look at and think is a cool guy. Make and keep EC with chicks. If you're just going out to sarge, get a buzz but don't get trashed. They're just women. Nothing to be scared of. I usually start off just casually talking to women. For me, it alleviates the pressure I feel when I'm going in for reasons other than convo.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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