midwestguy
Banned
with some people at my moms work. Its just a night club and restaurant. I was wondering how should I approach girls and get their number? What is a good pickup line. SHould I just buy drinks for girls/
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
midwestguy
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What is a good way to walk up to someone you eye that is cute?
diablo
Master Don Juan
First and foremost, READ before you post. Start with that sticky at the top of the forum that says "Read before posting or your thread may be deleted!" 
What you're asking is something that is addressed in great detail by a huge amount of articles and threads both in the DJ Bible, The Archive, and Don Juan Tips. Read. Reread. Then do a search. You're asking about how to do a "cold approach" - this has been brought up hundreds of times. Since deleting it last time didn't seem to enlighten you as to what was going on, thread closed this time around instead.
What you're asking is something that is addressed in great detail by a huge amount of articles and threads both in the DJ Bible, The Archive, and Don Juan Tips. Read. Reread. Then do a search. You're asking about how to do a "cold approach" - this has been brought up hundreds of times. Since deleting it last time didn't seem to enlighten you as to what was going on, thread closed this time around instead.- Status