"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm going 30 days of not drinking alcohol..

Big N

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I need alcohol's sweet sweet confidence boost to talk to chicks. When I'm sober, I just like to crawl in a corner and read or study. And, to the guy who said being sober makes his brain think quicker, for me I have to disagree totally on that one. The first five really get my brain moving and I speak 3 times as much as if I was sober. It's as if the alcohol is widening the blood vessels and getting more blood and oxygen (and alcohol) to my brain. My mind seems so much sharper when I've hit that sweet spot right before it all goes to hell and I'm slurring like a kid with Downs. Then I get that sh!tty look on my face and start going for any chick that doesn't have some guys arm around her yet.
This is exactly why you should quit drinking and learn how to PU chicks without alky.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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willo

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how much i drink!

i used to drink 3 times a week. Cut down to 2 and then to once and now back to 2.

So i'm stopping to break the pattern. Also i need the energy that drinking takes away for the exams . :D
 

Templeton

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Damn! That's three nights in a row I've been hitting it hard this week. Had to bail out fairly early last night as I think it's starting to catch up with me. Getting tired but also building up quite a tolerance to the alcohol and having no ill effects the next day. Thankfully, no heavy nights planned for a while now so I can get back into the training and proper eating. Lost about 5-6lbs in the last 10 days or so from too many late nights, poor eating and drink etc.
 

mahon83050

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My problem is alcohol and depression. I have suffered on and off from depression for years. Supposedly, drinking alcohol when depressed or on "meds" is like pouring gasoline on an already burning fire. It only makes sense, since alcohol is a depressant itself. Of course, when I drink I feel "good", calm and have not a care in the world. However, as you all know this is only temporary.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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