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[Metro3pilot]

I don't visit askmen often ..... and have not in quite a while

is it just me, or is there more women on askmen then men ?

when will they change the name to askwomen.com ?

:rockon:

 

[squirrels]

We should get a few here just to get the woman's point of view.

That would help if women could verbalize their point of view without sugar-coating it to make it socially acceptable. Women are part of the "system" and cannot be trusted. They don't know THEMSELVES what the hell they're talking about when they give advice.

Anyway...we've got the next best thing here. A bunch of keyboard-jockey b!tches who think they know it all.

 

[joekerr31]

askmen.com is a bullsh*t marketing site that tries to cater to too many demographics at once.

99% of their topics are a complete waste of time.

 

[##17]

I came from another forum that partially denigraded to something of a hook-up place a few years ago. Women would come in and wh*re for attention, and the beta males there would 'befriend' and try to hook-up with these women. It's become something of a hotbed for trolls too. Good advice for guys who really needed it was hard to come by.

There have always been some good people there (I still go back and visit sometimes), but from what I've seen, this forum is much, much better. Little nonsense, mostly post after post full of solid advice and good insight. Latinoman suggested I come here, and I am glad I did.

 

[WestCoaster]

WaterTiger, Bad Lil' Pixie, and Pen Kitten are women here who have good insight.

The nutjob with three divorces, three kids from different daddies, ex-con boyfriend, etc., who was here didn't give good advice. Can't even remember her name.

But a good rule of thumb is don't listen to women for dating advice. Example: 99 out of 100 women say they want to go out with a classy, respectable guy with a job. The same 99 out of 100 will turn around and pick up the first bad-boy, unemployed loser with a rap sheet because he made her laugh, or something stupid like that.

Listen to men.

 

[jophil28]

I am thinking that women are either clueless twits when it comes to being clear about what they want OR they want polar opposite commodities and qualities in one man. Here is an example of a convo from last night ,,,

Warm babe( 45 yearold trying to be hot babe) sidles up for a chat...
She," Hi ,Jophil babe, hows it going ?" (Snuggles in to my left side )
Me, " Hey Shirl, Ok - what's up ? "
She. " You look happy, H is really good for you - she looks happy too ."( H is my new squeeze )
Me, "Yeah, she almosts deserves me - she is still in probation ." I smirk and Warm Babe grins but is confused by my words .

Me, " Whats the deal with you and ..errr ?? "
She, " Oh, I am really happy with Barry - he is a real NICE guy."
( Barry is a 50 year old dork - a suburban schmuck who dances like a disabled duck )
Me, "So you like NICE guys ?. Why? "
She, "He is GOOd to me ."
Me,' "So he does what he is told, and he tries to PLEASE you " (I look disgusted with the thought)
She, "Yeah, whats wrong with that ?'
Me, " YOu ever think about having a GOOD GUY."
She, " Whats the difference?."
ME, "There is a lot,but a NICE guy will take you to YOUR fav restaurant hoping to get your approval. A GOOD GUY will take charge and take you to HIS fav place and you get to join him in a fun night. Ya GET that ?"
She grins in that way that confused women do.-
Me, " What's important to you ,Shirl ?"
She, " Security ! I need a man who has a good job and at least one piece of real estate, "
Me, " so you want money ? "
She, " No not really - well it is important . He has a great job working for the city,"
Me, " so it is all about money?"
She , "NO -I just like to be secure."
Me, " On his money ?"
She, " You got me confused now - a girl needs security"
Me, " And you want Barry to provide it for you ? Hey, You own a house and have a good job and you have half your Master's .. ?"
She, " I just want someone to be with who loves me and takes care of me. "
ME, " You having any real FUN ,Shirl ?"( I smirk )
She, " You are bad jophil..."
Me, " Does Barry fvck you breathless."
She, (looks stunned ) "He is not like that - YOU are like that, but you are dangerous."
Me, ( I grab her on the a$$ ) " Say hello to Barry for me."

I walk away and she looks like a kangaroo in the headlights.

 

[Interceptor]

 

[STR8UP]

I walk away and she looks like a kangaroo in the headlights.

A kangaroo in headlights.....hahahahahaha

 

[Phyzzle]

askmen=maxim magazine.

It's just the bare minimum of fluff to get your attention for a few minutes. The only good thing there is Doc Love.

Oddly, Doc Love said he figured out most of his views by interviewing women - but instead of "what do you like?" it was "What was your last boyfriend like? What exactly were his actions 3 weeks before you broke up?

 

[penkitten]

askmen=maxim magazine.

It's just the bare minimum of fluff to get your attention for a few minutes. The only good thing there is Doc Love.

Oddly, Doc Love said he figured out most of his views by interviewing women - but instead of "what do you like?" it was "What was your last boyfriend like? What exactly were his actions 3 weeks before you broke up?

isn't there doc love stuff still floating around here on the hall of fame?

 

[joekerr31]

I am thinking that women are either clueless twits when it comes to being clear about what they want OR they want polar opposite commodities and qualities in one man.

women aren't clueless, they just live in a world where there are certain things you 'just dont say' out loud. like that your with a man for his money or that you find his money a turn on.

and you know something, theres nothing wrong with that. i find a fit women more attractive than an unfit one. i find a caring woman more attractive than a b*tch. id also find an intelligent women more attractive than an idiot. these are all traits that make the relationship easier.

wanting a man who isn't on welfare is perfectly fine.

but women, being conscious that they will be called shallow gold diggers, use the term 'security' instead and then follow it up by emphasizing the other things that are more important - like his personality, their compatibility, etc.

anyway, women aren't twits, they know what they are doing, they just go by the secret code that all women known - which is that you must never talk openly about certain things around men or you will look like a gold digging shallow b*tch.

women are EXPERTS at avoiding all the landmines that could go off during a conversation with a man.

but kudos to you for pointing out what her real motivators were in dating that guy. but don't fool yourself, her reaction of 'surprise' was not genuine, she knows what she is doing.

a lot of times women toss out these polar opposite views simply to confuse a man also. its a way of gaining control fo the situation, make it confusing so that emotion is the primary form of communication (ie. flirting, giggling, story telling, etc. - no cold hard logic allowed ).

lastly, this chic wants to f*ck you. she basically did everything but invite you back to her place. you should bang her then afterwards tell her "man that was good. there's absolutely nothing like banging a wh*re to make you feel great."

 

[Phyzzle]

isn't there doc love stuff still floating around here on the hall of fame?

No, but his weekly column appears on the front page!

Hall of fame=forum posts. We cannot post his stuff here. We can't even write w-o-m-a-n-e-s-e.

 

[squirrels]

A kangaroo in headlights.....hahahahahaha

Careful, though...kangaroos will disembowel you if you get too close.

 

[mintxx]

" Me, ( I grab her on the a$$ ) " Say hello to Barry for me." "

I am proud to be Australian

 

[MikeYikes122]

The nutjob with three divorces, three kids from different daddies, ex-con boyfriend, etc., who was here didn't give good advice. Can't even remember her name.

Lord, I remember that woman. She was out of her gourd. Didn't she have a Web site, too? I remember I was in Psych 101 my freshman year of college when I discovered her site, and I went on the message board there and explained in detail every psychological problem I thought she had.

She advertised her site as "the next step" for students of DJs and SoSuave. What a crock and an ego builder for a woman who clearly had way too many personal issues of her own to be doling out life advice on relationships and love.

 

[Latinoman]

I came from another forum that partially denigraded to something of a hook-up place a few years ago. Women would come in and wh*re for attention, and the beta males there would 'befriend' and try to hook-up with these women. It's become something of a hotbed for trolls too. Good advice for guys who really needed it was hard to come by.

There have always been some good people there (I still go back and visit sometimes), but from what I've seen, this forum is much, much better. Little nonsense, mostly post after post full of solid advice and good insight. Latinoman suggested I come here, and I am glad I did.

Here was the thing. That place had three people that were there to give very serious advice. That was myself, #17, and a guy name Eric. The Eric guy was BRILLIANT with his ideas on how to approach women. Sadly…he was degraded.

The problem there was that it was impossible to see great advice because women were very against the advice given. Many of the men, like true lapdogs, sided with the females. I felt very bad for Eric as he was constantly attacked. I was attacked too, but I didn’t care. In fact, I even infiltrated the females as it was not that hard to get them interested.

Here is the big issue I had. When men started to give advice to others, and when that same advice was tampered and seasoned with the purpose to sending a message to a particular female…I had a lot of issues. Because that man was getting faulty advice.

I remember a couple (female and male that were engaged). The male was cool and all, but he was against “cheating”, “adultery”, and anything that many people would naturally detest. She was the same. Well…he was sleeping around with another female in the Community. How is that for hypocrisy?

Places like the one described above are dangerous for men that are in an emotional state and looking for solid advice. It was IMPOSSIBLE to give serious advice, because a thread would go from giving advice to literally defending yourself from the attack of the females. And the sad thing….it was a MEN’s forum!