"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm getting stupider...

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I think I'm getting stupider, is that possible? I have final exams next week and I can't concentrate, memorize, learn anything new. My brain has reached maximum capacity.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Caesar
My brain has reached maximum capacity.

You just answered your own question with that statement.
 

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take up yoga/meditation or go running
 

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Originally posted by Caesar
how can I purge it?
Stop smoking dope maybe??:confused:

No I doubt you're a pot somker...I think. I use to smoke pot and the same kinda thing happened to me until I finally kicked the habit.

Otherwise, like what everyone else is saying, just take some free time to yourself, that usually clears out your mind and helps you focus in on your studies.

I also found that even though it may appear you aren't memorizing the information you're studying, your mind is still absorbing the information without you being aware that that's whats going on. I studied for numerous exams and went in feeling I was very unprepared because even though I studied my arse off I didn't feel that I had really absorbed the information. Then when I sat down and actually started readin the questions, things started clicking in my mind and the information just poured out on my exams.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't yank it. Masturbation depletes neurotransmitters which help you think.
 

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Originally posted by Create Reality
Don't yank it. Masturbation depletes neurotransmitters which help you think.
masturbation is the cause of, and solution to all of mans problems.


or is that beer?

have a beer before you start studying, as opposed to a w*nk. that way, you'll feel like your at a rocking party and you'll associate studying as a good time, and you'll remember it better.


note: if this works, let me know :)
 

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Originally posted by Caesar
I think I'm getting stupider, is that possible? I have final exams next week and I can't concentrate, memorize, learn anything new. My brain has reached maximum capacity.
Yeah, I think it's possible to study yourself stupid. I've done that a few times myself. If you stare at your work long enough, it stops making sense. Step away from your studies for a while and come back to them later. In the meantime, do something relaxing, which will help clear your head.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i got the same thing going on................ I thought it was because i used to ware glasses, so i got the lasere surgery. 6 monthes lather, (litlebit better) but still can't concentrate
 
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