"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm getting stupider...
- Thread starter Caesar
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Stop smoking dope maybe??
No I doubt you're a pot somker...I think. I use to smoke pot and the same kinda thing happened to me until I finally kicked the habit.
Otherwise, like what everyone else is saying, just take some free time to yourself, that usually clears out your mind and helps you focus in on your studies.
I also found that even though it may appear you aren't memorizing the information you're studying, your mind is still absorbing the information without you being aware that that's whats going on. I studied for numerous exams and went in feeling I was very unprepared because even though I studied my arse off I didn't feel that I had really absorbed the information. Then when I sat down and actually started readin the questions, things started clicking in my mind and the information just poured out on my exams.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Basketba1100
Don Juan
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
masturbation is the cause of, and solution to all of mans problems.
or is that beer?
have a beer before you start studying, as opposed to a w*nk. that way, you'll feel like your at a rocking party and you'll associate studying as a good time, and you'll remember it better.
note: if this works, let me know
Create Reality
Master Don Juan
Genius.
BigDawg
Don Juan
Yeah, I think it's possible to study yourself stupid. I've done that a few times myself. If you stare at your work long enough, it stops making sense. Step away from your studies for a while and come back to them later. In the meantime, do something relaxing, which will help clear your head.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.