OK, yeah, so I went on all those dates with girls from online personals but I was always afraid to touch them, and then I got this one really attractive girl. We went to a bar and she was pressing her knee against mine, and asking me what movies I have at home, and I wasn't really responding the way she wanted, so eventually she just got fed up and said we're not right for each other.
So then I went online and asked this somewhat fat girl to be my sex therapist, and we made out. I didn't have sex with her though, because I didn't relish the thought of seeing her without the rest of her clothes. But ever since then I had no problem with kissing. Usually, I kiss my internet girls at the end. They still don't want to talk to me again, though.
The point is, you just have to force yourself a few times.