"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm Getting Real Frustrated!!

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Okay, so i can talk to girls, i do C+F, i kino and i try to be sexual and i try to be a challenge and alot that ****, but im still gettin friend zone, and i think the reason is that i can never make a move as in kissing, i just cant i have no idea why... gRR GETS ME SO ANGRY!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Snow Plowman

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Kino is KING!!!

It's funny how guys look for all the fancy moves and tricks but forget about the ultimate thing...KINO

If you're KINOing for the start and escalating you'd never get friend zoned. If you're not KINOing you're not getting now where. Dancing monkeys are the ones who use all this C&F and other attraction tools but never kino.

So for now on ESCALATE ESCALATE ESCALATE
 

Charm

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I think the first few kiss closes are awkward but you must have the balls to take the chance anyway. I got rejected actually my very first kiss close. She turned her face to the side and I got her cheek. But my next kiss close ended up with a make-out session and our very next date she was undressed in my bed. It took courage though to just DO IT and that is what you must do. After a while, kiss closing gets easy because it's not such a big deal to you. You just do it as part of the closing-game.
 

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OK, yeah, so I went on all those dates with girls from online personals but I was always afraid to touch them, and then I got this one really attractive girl. We went to a bar and she was pressing her knee against mine, and asking me what movies I have at home, and I wasn't really responding the way she wanted, so eventually she just got fed up and said we're not right for each other.

So then I went online and asked this somewhat fat girl to be my sex therapist, and we made out. I didn't have sex with her though, because I didn't relish the thought of seeing her without the rest of her clothes. But ever since then I had no problem with kissing. Usually, I kiss my internet girls at the end. They still don't want to talk to me again, though.

The point is, you just have to force yourself a few times.
 

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Maybe drop out the ****y and funny routine ****y = obnoxious. David Deangelo invented ****y and funny and we all know he is a fraud. Be confident and funny not ****y and funny.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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