"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i'm getting junk mail from chick

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Guys, theres this chick i met online, ran my c and f on her until she was down for me like no other. Now the problem is she keeps sending me u know those forwaded messages that have stings upon strings of other peoples addresses? with stuff like 'yu should send to 7 other people' and wat not, i told her once about it and that she should put a lid on it, heres wat i said:

ey wassup babes how yu doin, hws skool n all. ey i got all yo fwd's. interestin stuff yu gots thurr, ey listen, about them fwd's, it wuld be nice if we like exchanged 'real' mails, like me n yu exchangin stuff we writin, knowwatimsayin?, as in i say 'wassup babes' and yu go 'im good' stuff like that. cuz with them fwd's, i cant really reply within 'context' knowwatimsayin?
anyways i'll holla at yu later on,

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then she said she'll stop. but now i got TWO more freaking forwarded messages! i was about to tell her again, but i thought i'd ask around if theres anyone here who can write a piece that'll REALLY get the message home. :trouble:

anyone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BlazingArrow said:
try speaking english first?
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does my post look like its encryped? or YU are the one who cant make sense of it?
 
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why do u type normally on the forum, then type like a wigger in ur email

"knowwatimsayin?, " isnt one word, infact ur an idiot
 
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Dergz said:
does my post look like its encryped? or YU are the one who cant make sense of it?
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Dude just say
"Like brah, your like totally goofy here , like bogus. I mean your SMS are totally tubular and youre completely btichin' and all , but your spam is like bumming me out. So like why not just message me if you wanna hang or get radical , and leave the forwarded messgaes for someone less off the lip".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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scribblec said:
why do u type normally on the forum, then type like a wigger in ur email

"knowwatimsayin?, " isnt one word, infact ur an idiot
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:crackup:

teef
 
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I can't believe that you are 22 and still write like a 12 year old wannabe wigger.
 
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callin me a wannabe wigger unfortunaltely doesn't answer my question. i thought this was a place to help each other out, not rant on about how someone spells, that's the most trivial shyt i've ever seen! can't y'all jus give a positive response or somethin other than a diss?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I understand their hating though.

You seem intelligent... Why do you type like that when emailing girls?



Anyway, if I were in your position, I'd just block her. Enough women around that will respect me. No time for stupid chicks.
 
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NeonBase said:
I agree... It's just some chick you met online.
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yeah, i guess u right.

but she's tight though cuz i've seen her pix, but then again, u never know with online hookups. she might actually be a... :eek: i dare not say!
 
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Dergz said:
yeah, i guess u right.

but she's tight though cuz i've seen her pix, but then again, u never know with online hookups. she might actually be a... :eek: i dare not say!
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Never know if it's really her bro. I wouldn't trust her unless I chatted with her and saw her webcam. Careful, you don't want a surprise. lol
 
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