Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm getting hit on on an internet forum

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Out of all places.

There is a particular forum that I vist that has nothing whatsoever to do with women... it has to do with horse racing. spare time.. not often.

long story short... for whatever the reason may be... the woman to man ratio on this forum is at LeAST 3 to 1. at the very least. It's more of an industry forum per say, so alot of people who work around horses post there.

anyway to get to my point. I haven't even posted a pic of myself. I've gotten into a couple of heated debates with some people over different pedigrees and how much I hate todd pletcher. So I get a pm from one of the members there who I know I thoguht was a man and she pm's me and tells me that she's a woman. I'm like.. you know..opps. I'm sorry. I really am. no offense. hum ho. back to busineass.

she keeps Pming me about stupid ****. About how tired she is. about blah blah blah.. I mean.. I 'm making nice but I dont' really care.

So she pops out earlier today and asks, can she see a pic of me. I tell her why? She says she wants to put the face to the name. I'm like okay.. so I upload a pic. AGain.. I'm cautious but I don't know if If I should be because she really hasn't done anything. So she sends me a pic back.. and she's actually not bad. Actually she's pretty cute. My age, I think a year older. I was a little shocked to be honest.

Then she asks me what my MSN handle is.. I give it to her... and we talk... and she throws out these ovboius hints that she wants me to hit on her. She doesn't live too far from me, she stays a couple of cities over.. but I'm in a relationship and I kinda got suckered into the convo in the first place.. if I would have known the pretenses I wouldn't have went along.

It got to the point where it got a little uncomfortable and I had to leave the damn chat, I made some excuse up and I emaile dher and told her I was in a relationsihp.. **** I bet she knows my GF anyway.

Anyway... fvck myspace.. find the right forums.. they are dying to be hit up
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A lot of moneyed men are heavily involved with horse racing (gambling) - women know this! You probably divulged your age and hence the PM.
 
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She is there, on the forum, for a purpose! A 3 to 1 ratio of female to male is odd for such a venue!
 

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it really is. I didn't know women visited forums like that. Needless to say.. the arguements are funny as hell because women well.. don't use facts and aren't going to let them come in the way of winning an argument.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Material women know where to go to meet men they seek!! "Material" women seek wealthy established men - a young man is a bonus!
 
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