"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'm getting hit on on an internet forum

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Out of all places.

There is a particular forum that I vist that has nothing whatsoever to do with women... it has to do with horse racing. spare time.. not often.

long story short... for whatever the reason may be... the woman to man ratio on this forum is at LeAST 3 to 1. at the very least. It's more of an industry forum per say, so alot of people who work around horses post there.

anyway to get to my point. I haven't even posted a pic of myself. I've gotten into a couple of heated debates with some people over different pedigrees and how much I hate todd pletcher. So I get a pm from one of the members there who I know I thoguht was a man and she pm's me and tells me that she's a woman. I'm like.. you know..opps. I'm sorry. I really am. no offense. hum ho. back to busineass.

she keeps Pming me about stupid ****. About how tired she is. about blah blah blah.. I mean.. I 'm making nice but I dont' really care.

So she pops out earlier today and asks, can she see a pic of me. I tell her why? She says she wants to put the face to the name. I'm like okay.. so I upload a pic. AGain.. I'm cautious but I don't know if If I should be because she really hasn't done anything. So she sends me a pic back.. and she's actually not bad. Actually she's pretty cute. My age, I think a year older. I was a little shocked to be honest.

Then she asks me what my MSN handle is.. I give it to her... and we talk... and she throws out these ovboius hints that she wants me to hit on her. She doesn't live too far from me, she stays a couple of cities over.. but I'm in a relationship and I kinda got suckered into the convo in the first place.. if I would have known the pretenses I wouldn't have went along.

It got to the point where it got a little uncomfortable and I had to leave the damn chat, I made some excuse up and I emaile dher and told her I was in a relationsihp.. **** I bet she knows my GF anyway.

Anyway... fvck myspace.. find the right forums.. they are dying to be hit up
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A lot of moneyed men are heavily involved with horse racing (gambling) - women know this! You probably divulged your age and hence the PM.
 
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She is there, on the forum, for a purpose! A 3 to 1 ratio of female to male is odd for such a venue!
 

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it really is. I didn't know women visited forums like that. Needless to say.. the arguements are funny as hell because women well.. don't use facts and aren't going to let them come in the way of winning an argument.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Material women know where to go to meet men they seek!! "Material" women seek wealthy established men - a young man is a bonus!
 
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