IM game - How to reconnect with someone from 6 months ago?

[LoneRanger]

Back in May I generated a lot of interest from an attractive divorced woman. Then I realized she seemed too full of herself (princess-type), seemed to just want an email buddy so I nexted her.

Just for the hell of it, I think I could get a face to face now that I have a different mind set just to see what happens.

I am here for guidence on what my first step should be.

We met online, emailed for over a week and IMed once when I was in a bad frame of mind.

We had emailed a few times after but I told her I didn't want a pen pal and implied "goodbye".

A little bit later she emailed back expressing a lot of interest but I deleted it and her name from my IM friends list.

To my surprise I found her username in another part of my yahoo account last night, read over the IM archive and saw the mistakes I made.

One of my problems back then was a bad neusense neighbor who had a dog chained 10 foot from my bedroom window and it barked constantly all day. Now that that problem is gone I get more sleep and think clearly.

I have a totally different mindset, too.

I would like to see if I can reconnect with this woman and possibly F close. If not, no big deal. I just want to try for it.

The only way I have of connecting with her is IM. However, what do you think I should put in my message in my approach? I doubt she is with anyone. She is isolated in a small town. Wouldn't hurt to try.

 

[slaog]

Wish her a happy new year and ask her how is she getting on.


Are you sure it was the barking that effected your game? Because it shouldn't. Maybe you were just more AFC then.

 

[LoneRanger]

Are you sure it was the barking that effected your game? Because it shouldn't. Maybe you were just more AFC then.

You have no idea how that d*mn thing turned my life outside down.:cuss:

I go to sleep at about 4 in the morning. The dog started barking as soon as they let it outside at 7 - 8 ish and it continued barking non stop until whenever they brought it back in at night.

All the while 10 feet from my house.

Most times it had no food, water or shelter. Yep, it is those type of neighbors. The wife is a liquor drinking chain smoker.

I got 3 to 4 hours a sleep every night for months. Absolutely no peace in my house during the day. It finally took a meeting between the dog pound and the Saginaw County Prosecutor to make them move the dog further way from my house. Still it didn't do much good until I went to the local bar and b*tched about it to everyone who was there.

Its now a house dog but for how long?

It messed me up badly this year. If I am going to get anywhere in my game I have to move to a better community.

 

[LoneRanger]

Wish her a happy new year and ask her how is she getting on.

Thanks for the advise. I am trying out to see what happens. Yea, it has taken me this long to get around to doing it. Decided to take some time off from the Game.

She doen't seem to have been on her IM for weeks but I'll PM.

 

[amoka]

Poor dog... Why blame your decision on an innocent dog? If I understand you correctly, you have not met this person "in person" or "face-to-face" probably on "pictures" online. Why bother going after a divorced woman with whom you have not met and probably remarried somebody else within the six month period? .... don't forget, she probably don't look the way she looks in the picture you saw on IM...

 

[LoneRanger]

Poor dog... Why blame your decision on an innocent dog? If I understand you correctly, you have not met this person "in person" or "face-to-face" probably on "pictures" online. Why bother going after a divorced woman with whom you have not met and probably remarried somebody else within the six month period? .... don't forget, she probably don't look the way she looks in the picture you saw on IM...

amoka. you are correct but there is no harm in trying.

Women are not as plentiful in this area let alone places to meet them as they probably are in yours.

 

[GuanYu]

looks like you already know what to do...

Call her, text, send her an email asks how she's doin and say you two should meet up sometime.

It's the only sure way to know if this can escalate into anything worthwhile. You are looking for a lay right? Can't sex her behind your keyboard

 

[LoneRanger]

looks like you already know what to do...

Call her, text, send her an email asks how she's doin and say you two should meet up sometime.

It's the only sure way to know if this can escalate into anything worthwhile. You are looking for a lay right? Can't sex her behind your keyboard

Looks like will get some p*ssy soon. Shortly after I posted here I got into a chat with someone. We are meeting Saturday. :wave: