DrMetallica
Master Don Juan
I'm fed up with people/everyone. I think a serious cleansing is in order.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm fed up with people.
- Thread starter DrMetallica
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
selfmademob
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Sincerely,DrMetallica said:
Hitler
insanity
Master Don Juan
the holidays are simply madness. i got all excited yesterday at futureshop because i thought there was going to be a brawl at the line up because these 2 morons were holding up the line because they said the flyer offered some kind of deal and they wouldn't leave. the problem was that the deal ended a day before and the clerk explained that and they just wouldn't listen so the meltdown began in the line....people started yelling at the 2 customers, girls were screaming and complaining , it was all out chaos. then to make matters worse when the clerk finally let them have the deal the interrac machine kept denying their card. it was awesome. they finally screamed that they were never shopping in futureshop again. wow the holidays rock. the looks on peoples faces is just priceless. people have to learn to chill
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Then quit eating them!!!DrMetallica said:
Try eating beef - pork - or chicken as an alternative!!squirrels
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Yes. Of your attitude.DrMetallica said:
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Master Don Juan
If you took a serious cleansing, all these people wouldn't think you stink.
Be sure to use antibacterial soap to kill all those funk causing germs in your armpits and crotch.
Oh, and wipe from front-to-back.
"Get in the groove" with Charmin!
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Be sure to use antibacterial soap to kill all those funk causing germs in your armpits and crotch.
Oh, and wipe from front-to-back.
"Get in the groove" with Charmin!
:moon: