"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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**** im falling!

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theres this girl.. real hot especially for me. suites my taste so much.

she's sort of a player, and will NEVER be LTR/marriage material to me. Yet i feel that i will fall so hard for her!

I am starting to care for her.

I feel jealous whenever she will be out.

O please.. I dont wanna fall in love. I can't. Especially since she has "player" characteristics.

Can anyone give advices on how to remove my feelings for her? I am certain she will hurt me if i do fall for her.

She's such a sweet talker. I dont know what im getting myself into. It's like uncharted territory for me.

Help me not fall. Please. This matter is urgent to me because i feel like i care more and more about her as time passes by.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spider_007

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:crackup: bro, slap your self

1) put the emotions aside and think with logic.
2) go out and get your self laid (more then once if neccessary)

notting we can do about it. it's all up to you, and haw you handle things.
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ho is a ho, they are all the same (it's all about their emotions, there is no honour or sacrifise). if she feels like committing a mass murder she will.....
 

booga

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It's OK to feel things: you can't control that. It's not OK to let your feelings cloud your judgement. You have to just cowboy up & do what you have to do regardless of how you feel. A man should not be ruled by his emotions.
 

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*sigh*
i know that feeling, i feel for an "ice queen" a few years back
and i can't help but still feel alot of pain and bitterness
when i think about her.

this is gonna suck but if i were you i would not even
talk to her anymore or have anything to do with her,
erase her ### and just say forget it!

i noticed that when i idealized a girl in my mind
i feel more in love with the image of her then the
actual girl.
imagine her in the morning, doing mundane boring things,
doing laundry, picking her ass and smelling her finger..
whatever that woud just turn you off to her.
and chances are that will bring her down off
of her pedastal in your mind and she won't be soo special anymore. She will have lost her power and become
demystified. taint the image of her in your mind and you will
surely loose interest ,quickly.

as far as the "ice queen" i totally b** her out on her
voice mail for a few days and then i stopped talking to her.
everytime she comes back into town she'll call my house
non-stop.. i don't even care what she has to say and
if i ever do see her again. i'd say nothing to her..
just smile and feel like i was talking to a stranger...
 

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Beer and strip joint time.... until you get some other woman interest.

I'd suggest someone slap you in the face as well. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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nonstop

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always always always............protect your heart
 
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