"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**** im falling!

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theres this girl.. real hot especially for me. suites my taste so much.

she's sort of a player, and will NEVER be LTR/marriage material to me. Yet i feel that i will fall so hard for her!

I am starting to care for her.

I feel jealous whenever she will be out.

O please.. I dont wanna fall in love. I can't. Especially since she has "player" characteristics.

Can anyone give advices on how to remove my feelings for her? I am certain she will hurt me if i do fall for her.

She's such a sweet talker. I dont know what im getting myself into. It's like uncharted territory for me.

Help me not fall. Please. This matter is urgent to me because i feel like i care more and more about her as time passes by.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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:crackup: bro, slap your self

1) put the emotions aside and think with logic.
2) go out and get your self laid (more then once if neccessary)

notting we can do about it. it's all up to you, and haw you handle things.
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ho is a ho, they are all the same (it's all about their emotions, there is no honour or sacrifise). if she feels like committing a mass murder she will.....
 

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It's OK to feel things: you can't control that. It's not OK to let your feelings cloud your judgement. You have to just cowboy up & do what you have to do regardless of how you feel. A man should not be ruled by his emotions.
 

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*sigh*
i know that feeling, i feel for an "ice queen" a few years back
and i can't help but still feel alot of pain and bitterness
when i think about her.

this is gonna suck but if i were you i would not even
talk to her anymore or have anything to do with her,
erase her ### and just say forget it!

i noticed that when i idealized a girl in my mind
i feel more in love with the image of her then the
actual girl.
imagine her in the morning, doing mundane boring things,
doing laundry, picking her ass and smelling her finger..
whatever that woud just turn you off to her.
and chances are that will bring her down off
of her pedastal in your mind and she won't be soo special anymore. She will have lost her power and become
demystified. taint the image of her in your mind and you will
surely loose interest ,quickly.

as far as the "ice queen" i totally b** her out on her
voice mail for a few days and then i stopped talking to her.
everytime she comes back into town she'll call my house
non-stop.. i don't even care what she has to say and
if i ever do see her again. i'd say nothing to her..
just smile and feel like i was talking to a stranger...
 

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Beer and strip joint time.... until you get some other woman interest.

I'd suggest someone slap you in the face as well. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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always always always............protect your heart
 
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