"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm F-Closing a customer at work. Could loose my job!

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Ok listen up guys. I work in retail and today a HBYoung came to the place I work with her father. She's cute and I'm going to F-Close her ASAP. However, this takes some discretion as I don't think my boss will be too happy about it.

I was very professional when she was in my store today, but I tried to keep eye contact with her to spark some interest. I think she is single as she brought her parents and not a BF.



This is my plan:

* If she calls and tells me the deal is off, I'll ask her out at the end of the call
* If she comes back to the store with parent(s) I'll play it cool until she leaves and later text her to check on her interest level, and then call to ask her out



Timeframe: 1 to 3 weeks

Chance of F-Close: I estimate 50%-80%

Priority: "A", as I have few prospects as of now

Possible roadblocks: I'm about 7 years older. Parents might object. I could fall into the "Womanizer"-category if my confidence is up when we meet. She may find me unattractive as looks go. (I gotta be realistic here, I'm not average looking, not gross, but definetely not a Brad Pitt kinda guy.) She might not have the time as she seemed very busy.



ACTION PLAN: ASK HER OUT!



I'm going to listen to my motivational song a lot! O.C. feat. Big L. - Dangerous

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMM7mW_TC5Y

This has helped me to score several times. Its mad motivational!


UPDATES TO FOLLOW! WISH ME LUCK GUYS!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A) You work in retail...who cares if you lose the job?

B) Other than attempting to make eye contact with her, and not knowing if she's single, what parts of your story lead us to believe that she's interested?

It just sounds like some random chick came in your store and you have some crazy fantasy in your head
 

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I forgot to mention this: To make the whole thing less formal, I texted her a short note about the deal we are looking at with a smiley at the end, and she texted back immediately with a smiley at the end. I might get flamed for this, but I want to try to be flirty so asking for a date comes a bit more naturally.

I'm so motivated nowadays its mad! GREAT! I'm constantly looking for new prospects too! SARGING RULES!
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
A) You work in retail...who cares if you lose the job?

B) Other than attempting to make eye contact with her, and not knowing if she's single, what parts of your story lead us to believe that she's interested?

It just sounds like some random chick came in your store and you have some crazy fantasy in your head

A) Irrelevant.

B) I don't know if she's interested, but do you suggest I assume she's not? I couldn't find out a way to do elicidate such info from her when she was with her parents.

You'r right. A random chick came into my store, and now she is a prospect. Thats a fact not a crazy fantasy. She might or might not like me. Thats why I do this.

Do you have any advice or suggestions as to what I should do, or was it just a flame?
 

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You sound like an insecure tool. Sorry that's what I'm reading here based on the post.


Give it a shot if you want it so much, good luck. My one piece of advice would be to stop assuming. You make an ass out of...you know.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Target_100 said:
A) Irrelevant.

B) I don't know if she's interested, but do you suggest I assume she's not? I couldn't find out a way to do elicidate such info from her when she was with her parents.

You'r right. A random chick came into my store, and now she is a prospect. Thats a fact not a crazy fantasy. She might or might not like me. Thats why I do this.

Do you have any advice or suggestions as to what I should do, or was it just a flame?
What do you need suggestions for? There's already a 50% - 80% chance of F*** Close.

Ah man. People say that you shouldn't feed the trolls, but come on guys...this is fun.
 

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Amazing said:
You sound like an insecure tool. Sorry that's what I'm reading here based on the post.


Give it a shot if you want it so much, good luck. My one piece of advice would be to stop assuming. You make an ass out of...you know.
Yes I have insecurities. Who doesn't?

Of course I'll give it a shot! I'd be stupid not to! If I get lucky I get to go to bed with a beautful young woman!
 

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I know that I overanalyze things in the first post. Don't get too hung up on that.

My mission is simply to ask her out.
 

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Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Target_100 said:
Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
So if you've pulled this off before, why do you need advice about it now? Just curious. Either way I do hope you get the girl.
 

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Target_100 said:
Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
Woah look at you man! You're a regular Josh Holloway. :cheer:

Anyways, i could understand if you worked in a law firm or a school or any other kind of place where you career could advance, but it's a retail job so I say go for it.
 

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I'll post an update om monday.

I'll be sarging in a few clubs in the meantime. It vould be cool to try some daygame also though. I really want to try but I am too scared :)
 

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Update: I fu__d up and did not call her. I was too scared to be rejected so i tried to text a lot. As you know that doesn't work.


NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT! :)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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