"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm F-Closing a customer at work. Could loose my job!

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Ok listen up guys. I work in retail and today a HBYoung came to the place I work with her father. She's cute and I'm going to F-Close her ASAP. However, this takes some discretion as I don't think my boss will be too happy about it.

I was very professional when she was in my store today, but I tried to keep eye contact with her to spark some interest. I think she is single as she brought her parents and not a BF.



This is my plan:

* If she calls and tells me the deal is off, I'll ask her out at the end of the call
* If she comes back to the store with parent(s) I'll play it cool until she leaves and later text her to check on her interest level, and then call to ask her out



Timeframe: 1 to 3 weeks

Chance of F-Close: I estimate 50%-80%

Priority: "A", as I have few prospects as of now

Possible roadblocks: I'm about 7 years older. Parents might object. I could fall into the "Womanizer"-category if my confidence is up when we meet. She may find me unattractive as looks go. (I gotta be realistic here, I'm not average looking, not gross, but definetely not a Brad Pitt kinda guy.) She might not have the time as she seemed very busy.



ACTION PLAN: ASK HER OUT!



I'm going to listen to my motivational song a lot! O.C. feat. Big L. - Dangerous

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QMM7mW_TC5Y

This has helped me to score several times. Its mad motivational!


UPDATES TO FOLLOW! WISH ME LUCK GUYS!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A) You work in retail...who cares if you lose the job?

B) Other than attempting to make eye contact with her, and not knowing if she's single, what parts of your story lead us to believe that she's interested?

It just sounds like some random chick came in your store and you have some crazy fantasy in your head
 

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I forgot to mention this: To make the whole thing less formal, I texted her a short note about the deal we are looking at with a smiley at the end, and she texted back immediately with a smiley at the end. I might get flamed for this, but I want to try to be flirty so asking for a date comes a bit more naturally.

I'm so motivated nowadays its mad! GREAT! I'm constantly looking for new prospects too! SARGING RULES!
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
A) You work in retail...who cares if you lose the job?

B) Other than attempting to make eye contact with her, and not knowing if she's single, what parts of your story lead us to believe that she's interested?

It just sounds like some random chick came in your store and you have some crazy fantasy in your head

A) Irrelevant.

B) I don't know if she's interested, but do you suggest I assume she's not? I couldn't find out a way to do elicidate such info from her when she was with her parents.

You'r right. A random chick came into my store, and now she is a prospect. Thats a fact not a crazy fantasy. She might or might not like me. Thats why I do this.

Do you have any advice or suggestions as to what I should do, or was it just a flame?
 

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You sound like an insecure tool. Sorry that's what I'm reading here based on the post.


Give it a shot if you want it so much, good luck. My one piece of advice would be to stop assuming. You make an ass out of...you know.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Target_100 said:
A) Irrelevant.

B) I don't know if she's interested, but do you suggest I assume she's not? I couldn't find out a way to do elicidate such info from her when she was with her parents.

You'r right. A random chick came into my store, and now she is a prospect. Thats a fact not a crazy fantasy. She might or might not like me. Thats why I do this.

Do you have any advice or suggestions as to what I should do, or was it just a flame?
What do you need suggestions for? There's already a 50% - 80% chance of F*** Close.

Ah man. People say that you shouldn't feed the trolls, but come on guys...this is fun.
 

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Amazing said:
You sound like an insecure tool. Sorry that's what I'm reading here based on the post.


Give it a shot if you want it so much, good luck. My one piece of advice would be to stop assuming. You make an ass out of...you know.
Yes I have insecurities. Who doesn't?

Of course I'll give it a shot! I'd be stupid not to! If I get lucky I get to go to bed with a beautful young woman!
 

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I know that I overanalyze things in the first post. Don't get too hung up on that.

My mission is simply to ask her out.
 

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Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Target_100 said:
Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
So if you've pulled this off before, why do you need advice about it now? Just curious. Either way I do hope you get the girl.
 

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Target_100 said:
Not to brag but I've F-Closed four customers in the last two years so I know its possible.
Woah look at you man! You're a regular Josh Holloway. :cheer:

Anyways, i could understand if you worked in a law firm or a school or any other kind of place where you career could advance, but it's a retail job so I say go for it.
 

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I'll post an update om monday.

I'll be sarging in a few clubs in the meantime. It vould be cool to try some daygame also though. I really want to try but I am too scared :)
 

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Update: I fu__d up and did not call her. I was too scared to be rejected so i tried to text a lot. As you know that doesn't work.


NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEXT! :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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