"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm f*cking fuming right now

Infern0

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Been seeing a girl. Seen her four times now. Been to her place and she's been to mine. Had sex a bunch of times.

Had a date setup for tonight (scheduled it last sunday). Texted her making sure we were still on Thursday. She confirms. Text her today saying I could do earlier if she wants, but she says we should do an hour later (8pm). I was surprised because she's a super early person and usually goes to bed at 10, but I agree.

Texted her an hour ago to let me know when she's on her way (she lives 30 mins away). Now it is 8pm and she texts me back saying "I'm really not in the mood for a bunch of sex sessions". Our "date" was supposed to be me taking her out and showing her around my area, which I told her, and she responds saying "we had only talked about sex so I wasn't aware."

I screenshotted my text from Thursday confirming the date and sent it to her. I literally said: "we still on for our downtown blah blah blah tour Saturday?"

On top of this, she's taking f*cking forever to respond to every text. I'm about to call this PoS kunt.

I'm so f*cking pissed. My FWB flaked last night two hours before we were supposed to hangout, and this girl, who I honestly liked more and might've wanted to get serious with, is flaking at the absolute last second tonight. My entire weekend is f*cking shot.

She could've flaked at ANY point during the week and I would've been disappointed, but "okay" with it. Thursday when I confirmed, yesterday, earlier today. Jesus Christ. I'm f*cking sweating as I type this because I'm so mad.
I don't blame her for flaking considering your obvious instability.

Also, you texted to confirm.

learn the basics, and sort out those anger issues.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's important to remember: the more a relationship progresses, the more is implied in terms of how much action you will get. So naturally there is more resistance some times.
 
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