"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm f*cking fuming right now

Infern0

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Been seeing a girl. Seen her four times now. Been to her place and she's been to mine. Had sex a bunch of times.

Had a date setup for tonight (scheduled it last sunday). Texted her making sure we were still on Thursday. She confirms. Text her today saying I could do earlier if she wants, but she says we should do an hour later (8pm). I was surprised because she's a super early person and usually goes to bed at 10, but I agree.

Texted her an hour ago to let me know when she's on her way (she lives 30 mins away). Now it is 8pm and she texts me back saying "I'm really not in the mood for a bunch of sex sessions". Our "date" was supposed to be me taking her out and showing her around my area, which I told her, and she responds saying "we had only talked about sex so I wasn't aware."

I screenshotted my text from Thursday confirming the date and sent it to her. I literally said: "we still on for our downtown blah blah blah tour Saturday?"

On top of this, she's taking f*cking forever to respond to every text. I'm about to call this PoS kunt.

I'm so f*cking pissed. My FWB flaked last night two hours before we were supposed to hangout, and this girl, who I honestly liked more and might've wanted to get serious with, is flaking at the absolute last second tonight. My entire weekend is f*cking shot.

She could've flaked at ANY point during the week and I would've been disappointed, but "okay" with it. Thursday when I confirmed, yesterday, earlier today. Jesus Christ. I'm f*cking sweating as I type this because I'm so mad.
I don't blame her for flaking considering your obvious instability.

Also, you texted to confirm.

learn the basics, and sort out those anger issues.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's important to remember: the more a relationship progresses, the more is implied in terms of how much action you will get. So naturally there is more resistance some times.
 
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