"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Im done, I GIVE UP, I'm sick of people and I'm sick of girls
- Thread starter Silex
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
reallyfreakinlost
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Come over to my thread "Pretending to be in pain to get girl's attention" use my method, I guarantee you you will get laid. REALLY! I GUARANTEE it.Silex said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
http://www.cuddleparty.com/
They'll make you feel all better...
Ol'BlueEyes
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Bang your head on a piano. Look what it did for Don Music; he wrote the alphabet song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Er_dDJDAPU0
winter_sucksx
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Yup you give up that easy?Huh well I guess America should just give up on war on terror and stop looking for bin laden and let him attac america againSilex said:
Get the fukk out of here man NEVER GIVE UP AND NEVER SURRENDER
Giving up means you have failed life,dont give up just contuie on.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
reallyfreakinlost
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Winter does not suck! I love the cold season, its the summer that I hate!winter_sucksx said:Yup you give up that easy?Huh well I guess America should just give up on war on terror and stop looking for bin laden and let him attac america again
Get the fukk out of here man NEVER GIVE UP AND NEVER SURRENDER
Giving up means you have failed life,dont give up just contuie on.
winter_sucksx
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Manonamission
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That show sucks, but yeah I see what you mean.Silex said:
Honestly if that's how you feel, than **** em. Do what you WANT and LIKE to do. Go to the gym, hang out with your bros, do whatever the you want whenever you want.
Believe it or not, last time I was disgusted with woman I took this approach, went out to a party and for some reason chicks just flock to you.
If you just relax, have fun and not give a **** about anything with a ***** you'll be surprised how happy you become.
Hope that helped.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Manonamission
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Wow...I've seen a lot of pathetic ****....but that site has got to be close to the top...Francisco d'Anconia said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Either way why should you care, you've given up...Silex said:
Luke Skywalker
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It's not pathetic at all, it's an excellent place to practise 'reallyfreakinglosts' pain routine - there would likely be plenty of succers there who would fall for it.Manonamission said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup: :crackup:Luke Skywalker said:
:crackup: :crackup:"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.