You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Come over to my thread "Pretending to be in pain to get girl's attention" use my method, I guarantee you you will get laid. REALLY! I GUARANTEE it.Silex said:4 flames so far.... keep it up.
Yup you give up that easy?Huh well I guess America should just give up on war on terror and stop looking for bin laden and let him attac america againSilex said:thats it. My life is over.
I GIVE UP.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Winter does not suck! I love the cold season, its the summer that I hate!winter_sucksx said:Yup you give up that easy?Huh well I guess America should just give up on war on terror and stop looking for bin laden and let him attac america again
Get the fukk out of here man NEVER GIVE UP AND NEVER SURRENDER
Giving up means you have failed life,dont give up just contuie on.
That show sucks, but yeah I see what you mean.Silex said:No this aint the ****ing "View", BUT IT IS A SELF-HELP/ADVICE SITE. FOR MEN. SO MAYBE its THE MALE "VIEW".
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wow...I've seen a lot of pathetic ****....but that site has got to be close to the top...Francisco d'Anconia said:WTF do you think this is? This ain't The View. Here, try this site...
http://www.cuddleparty.com/
They'll make you feel all better...
Either way why should you care, you've given up...Silex said:No this aint the ****ing "View", BUT IT IS A SELF-HELP/ADVICE SITE. FOR MEN. SO MAYBE its THE MALE "VIEW".
It's not pathetic at all, it's an excellent place to practise 'reallyfreakinglosts' pain routine - there would likely be plenty of succers there who would fall for it.Manonamission said:Wow...I've seen a lot of pathetic ****....but that site has got to be close to the top...
:crackup: :crackup:Luke Skywalker said:It's not pathetic at all, it's an excellent place to practise 'reallyfreakinglosts' pain routine - there would likely be plenty of succers there who would fall for it.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.