"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How many of you guys read a lot of the tips and advice and psychology behind the pick up but as you "take it in one ear, it goes out the other?"

Maybe I'm just really exhausted when i read tips and stuff. Lately I've been up and about being busy from like 7 in the morning till sometimes 1 oclock at night..and I come home and I'll get on for and try to absorb all this stuff. It makes sense at the time and it clicks in my brain like a light bulb but then the next day I forget exactly what I read about...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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happens to me to... when reading, say something on confidence, it is inspiring. and you may lose that feeling when you're back out in the world or after having slept. just read it over and over.
 
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Mary Jane is my hottest HB. Her red hairs and intoxicating fragrance turns me into an AFC. I have oneitis for this girl
 

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I say go and do whatever you want. Yeah your afraid of losing her...and you will not gain any wisdom if you don't make any mistakes, I'm not saying go out and screw around on purpose, but that would be wonderful heh. It is 1000x better to learn from real hands on experience.

What I got out of sosuave that really helped in the REAL WORLD(not high school or college)

1) Engage and talk to more girls and more girls! Ask the five W questions.
2) Real Men truly have no insecurities(how you overcome them is up to you)
3) Kino
4) If any girl/woman/lady disrespects you...YOU STAND YOU GROUND AND CHOOSE THE WISEST PATH IMHO by walking away.

I think I screw up everyday, but there's always another female. Oneitis is natural, but try not to hypnotize yourself that she's the greatest gal.

Hope that helps.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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