"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How many of you guys read a lot of the tips and advice and psychology behind the pick up but as you "take it in one ear, it goes out the other?"

Maybe I'm just really exhausted when i read tips and stuff. Lately I've been up and about being busy from like 7 in the morning till sometimes 1 oclock at night..and I come home and I'll get on for and try to absorb all this stuff. It makes sense at the time and it clicks in my brain like a light bulb but then the next day I forget exactly what I read about...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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happens to me to... when reading, say something on confidence, it is inspiring. and you may lose that feeling when you're back out in the world or after having slept. just read it over and over.
 
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Mary Jane is my hottest HB. Her red hairs and intoxicating fragrance turns me into an AFC. I have oneitis for this girl
 
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I say go and do whatever you want. Yeah your afraid of losing her...and you will not gain any wisdom if you don't make any mistakes, I'm not saying go out and screw around on purpose, but that would be wonderful heh. It is 1000x better to learn from real hands on experience.

What I got out of sosuave that really helped in the REAL WORLD(not high school or college)

1) Engage and talk to more girls and more girls! Ask the five W questions.
2) Real Men truly have no insecurities(how you overcome them is up to you)
3) Kino
4) If any girl/woman/lady disrespects you...YOU STAND YOU GROUND AND CHOOSE THE WISEST PATH IMHO by walking away.

I think I screw up everyday, but there's always another female. Oneitis is natural, but try not to hypnotize yourself that she's the greatest gal.

Hope that helps.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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