"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm curious about you guys, yeah you, Don Juans!

Angelo

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How do you mostly get a date? Do you get a date through mutual friends? Classmates? Clubs? Work? Cold approaches?

Also, during the day time, what is your favorite opener when initiating a conversation? What do you guys use? I was reading Cajun's interview and I really like the part when he says to just say that she's caught your eye and want to introduce yourself. It's a little direct, but what can go wrong with that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MartyMcFly

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I don't try to make it sound like a date, i prefer to invite them to join me somewhere that I had already planned on going. And from there then you can plan a real date if you guys are actually into eachother.
 
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