"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm curious about you guys, yeah you, Don Juans!

Angelo

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How do you mostly get a date? Do you get a date through mutual friends? Classmates? Clubs? Work? Cold approaches?

Also, during the day time, what is your favorite opener when initiating a conversation? What do you guys use? I was reading Cajun's interview and I really like the part when he says to just say that she's caught your eye and want to introduce yourself. It's a little direct, but what can go wrong with that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MartyMcFly

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I don't try to make it sound like a date, i prefer to invite them to join me somewhere that I had already planned on going. And from there then you can plan a real date if you guys are actually into eachother.
 
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