"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I'm convinced that meeting girls at bars is pointless

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Maybe its just me but every girl I've met at a bar has been complete crap.

Yeah, I've gotten laid and even dated a few for while but it never amounted to anything. (Sometimes you get tired of ONS's)

I'm completely giving up on ever finding anyone genuine at a bar/club.

And I'm not talking about some sleazy joint, these are nice trendy, professional type bars... ugh.

I think I'm tired of who.re's

I sound frustrated, which would make me an AFC, Average frustrated Chalupa.

That's my rant for tonight.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bars are only good for meeting quality women on eventful days like the 4th, or New Years. Everything in between are the bar-flys that frequent the scene week after week. They want their attention and their sex.

Read about why you don't LTR these girls in the Tips Forum (Wisdom for the decent ..) thread.
 
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Bars are for drunks...or Happy Hours professionals.

Nightclubs is a little different.
 
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