"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm convinced that meeting girls at bars is pointless

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Maybe its just me but every girl I've met at a bar has been complete crap.

Yeah, I've gotten laid and even dated a few for while but it never amounted to anything. (Sometimes you get tired of ONS's)

I'm completely giving up on ever finding anyone genuine at a bar/club.

And I'm not talking about some sleazy joint, these are nice trendy, professional type bars... ugh.

I think I'm tired of who.re's

I sound frustrated, which would make me an AFC, Average frustrated Chalupa.

That's my rant for tonight.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bars are only good for meeting quality women on eventful days like the 4th, or New Years. Everything in between are the bar-flys that frequent the scene week after week. They want their attention and their sex.

Read about why you don't LTR these girls in the Tips Forum (Wisdom for the decent ..) thread.
 
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Bars are for drunks...or Happy Hours professionals.

Nightclubs is a little different.
 
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