Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm convinced that meeting girls at bars is pointless

st_99

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Maybe its just me but every girl I've met at a bar has been complete crap.

Yeah, I've gotten laid and even dated a few for while but it never amounted to anything. (Sometimes you get tired of ONS's)

I'm completely giving up on ever finding anyone genuine at a bar/club.

And I'm not talking about some sleazy joint, these are nice trendy, professional type bars... ugh.

I think I'm tired of who.re's

I sound frustrated, which would make me an AFC, Average frustrated Chalupa.

That's my rant for tonight.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tmpgstx

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Bars are only good for meeting quality women on eventful days like the 4th, or New Years. Everything in between are the bar-flys that frequent the scene week after week. They want their attention and their sex.

Read about why you don't LTR these girls in the Tips Forum (Wisdom for the decent ..) thread.
 

Latinoman

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Bars are for drunks...or Happy Hours professionals.

Nightclubs is a little different.
 
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