"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm confused

Neoblaze

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I have a weird situation that happened to me today(im 16) in which I
attempted to talk to this girl that i'm interested in, here's how it went:
ME:You dont say hi?
Her:*stays quiet*
like 10 minutes later...
Her:looks at me directly in the eyes
ME:How are you(in spanish)
Her:continues to stay quiet then turns back around
What's up with that? ,did i forget to mention that my heart beating rapidly when i was talking to her and around her,i was nervous alright,but i tried to commence a conversation,anyways what do you make out of this situation?,anything would be good,thanks:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TyTe`EyEs

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From the convo, I would have to say that she probably isn't interested. But then again, wtf do I know? Decide for yourself, man. If she isn't interested, move on to the next.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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InsidiousNstinct

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Noone throw anything at me but....was she deaf...? Being serious here...
 

Neoblaze

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nope,not deaf n both languages, i couldnt tell the expression of her eyses but i think she was just looking at me,as if she was waiting for me to say something(which i did,but as you all know she stayed quiet)
 

Neoblaze

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maybe but then again who cares:eek:, you guys are right,if she's not interested then i should move on
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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