"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have a weird situation that happened to me today(im 16) in which I
attempted to talk to this girl that i'm interested in, here's how it went:
ME:You dont say hi?
Her:*stays quiet*
like 10 minutes later...
Her:looks at me directly in the eyes
ME:How are you(in spanish)
Her:continues to stay quiet then turns back around
What's up with that? ,did i forget to mention that my heart beating rapidly when i was talking to her and around her,i was nervous alright,but i tried to commence a conversation,anyways what do you make out of this situation?,anything would be good,thanks:cool:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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From the convo, I would have to say that she probably isn't interested. But then again, wtf do I know? Decide for yourself, man. If she isn't interested, move on to the next.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noone throw anything at me but....was she deaf...? Being serious here...
 
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nope,not deaf n both languages, i couldnt tell the expression of her eyses but i think she was just looking at me,as if she was waiting for me to say something(which i did,but as you all know she stayed quiet)
 
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maybe but then again who cares:eek:, you guys are right,if she's not interested then i should move on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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