I'm confused

[bob0]

I need help. I've got all this information that u need to be a challenge to women, and use '****y and funny' techniques. Well, my friend has tried to hook me up with his cousin that lives a long way away. i talk to her on the internet sometimes. the other nite we were talkin about her visitin and she couldn't get a ride over here. i told her that i didn't think she was worth goin and gettin, just as a joke. she got mad at me. she told my friend she hated me. i was just kiddin and tryin to be ****y funny, but i guess i wasn't was i? but then my friend told her i was just jokin. i don't think she likes me but she isn't mad as much now. is what i said bad, or does she just not have a sense of humor?

 

[Slimijs]

You have to learn to NEG-hit, because your was one of the worst I have heard. Your attitude was more jerk like, then C+F. And you should never say that you 'think' that. You should have said something like.

"Are you worth gettin'?"

There is a slim line between hate and love, learn to cross it.

 

[gav]

what did you actually say to her?

if you said "i don't think you're worth going to get", then that sounds very serious and would naturally make most people angry unless you followed it by 5smilies

slimijs is right, it's much better if you ask the question: "is it really worth me coming to get you?" - this also works as a test, because if she starts qualifying herself like mad e.g. "i'm so brilliant, i'm smart, i'm outgoing..." then you know she's a low self-respect kind of person

here's an idea, next time you speak to her, if she brings what you said up, say "look, i'm tired of these games you're playing. we're both adults, why don't you just come out and tell me you love me" - that's a pretty daring one, so be careful

 

[sosofresh]

I think the two b4 me are right. The "i don't think" part kinda killed you. next time if your unsure of how she'll take it, just put a "lol" next to it.