"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met this girl last week, we started talking and she invited me back to her house. She asked if I wanted to have a coupe drinks with her. I went to her house, to her bedroom, where theres nothing but a bed. After a few minutes we started kissing, I sucked on her breasts, ect.

An hour and a half later I had to leave, she kissed me and made me promise to call her. The way she was kissing me I figured she likes me.

This was last week, I called her and left two messages (she doesnt answer her phone) and the dumb chick never called me back.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she met someone else....

or, she wanted sex, and you failed buddy !

or, she lost her phone (super unlikely)

or, she died, however, I think this is also unlikely ha
 
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Uh....ooops....
Failure to deploy.
Oh well.

Dont call her back, she wont answer again.
Keep your dignity and self respect here. Leave her alone.



Next time dont feel ashamed or embarassed for wanting sex with a woman.

I hope this lesson helps you in the future.
 
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Dude, after making out with her , i started to slide my hand in her pants and she said she had her period. Just before she left, she grabbed my hands, pull me towards and and start making out with me. Obviously I'm thinking this girl likes me.

btw she did lose her phone, that the first thing she told me. But her voice mail works. What gets me is it seemed like the girl likes me, she told me to call her soon, ect.
 
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The day you met her you nearly had sex with her? I may be going out on a limb here but she JUST MIGHT be a licentious slvt b!tch. With those kinds it's easy come, easy go. She might have lost her phone, or she might be too busy servicing the 2 guys she met THIS week. Your call
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Her actions at the time were based on her emotional state: in this case, horny because of her period. Once she looks back on it, without the emotions coloring the picture, she will feel that her previous actions were "slvtty", and that meeting up with you would be even more so. So she will distance herself from those feelings. Which, in this case, means distancing herself from you.

It's a bummer, but there's not much you can do about it.
 
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Dude, after making out with her , i started to slide my hand in her pants and she said she had her period. /about 30 min later before she left, she grabbed my hands, pull me towards and and start making out with me.

btw she did lose her phone, that the first thing she told me. But her voice mail works. What gets me is it seemed like the girl likes me, she told me to call her soon, ect.
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Why didnt you post this in the OP?
 
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