"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I met this girl last week, we started talking and she invited me back to her house. She asked if I wanted to have a coupe drinks with her. I went to her house, to her bedroom, where theres nothing but a bed. After a few minutes we started kissing, I sucked on her breasts, ect.

An hour and a half later I had to leave, she kissed me and made me promise to call her. The way she was kissing me I figured she likes me.

This was last week, I called her and left two messages (she doesnt answer her phone) and the dumb chick never called me back.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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she met someone else....

or, she wanted sex, and you failed buddy !

or, she lost her phone (super unlikely)

or, she died, however, I think this is also unlikely ha
 
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Uh....ooops....
Failure to deploy.
Oh well.

Dont call her back, she wont answer again.
Keep your dignity and self respect here. Leave her alone.



Next time dont feel ashamed or embarassed for wanting sex with a woman.

I hope this lesson helps you in the future.
 
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Dude, after making out with her , i started to slide my hand in her pants and she said she had her period. Just before she left, she grabbed my hands, pull me towards and and start making out with me. Obviously I'm thinking this girl likes me.

btw she did lose her phone, that the first thing she told me. But her voice mail works. What gets me is it seemed like the girl likes me, she told me to call her soon, ect.
 
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The day you met her you nearly had sex with her? I may be going out on a limb here but she JUST MIGHT be a licentious slvt b!tch. With those kinds it's easy come, easy go. She might have lost her phone, or she might be too busy servicing the 2 guys she met THIS week. Your call
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Her actions at the time were based on her emotional state: in this case, horny because of her period. Once she looks back on it, without the emotions coloring the picture, she will feel that her previous actions were "slvtty", and that meeting up with you would be even more so. So she will distance herself from those feelings. Which, in this case, means distancing herself from you.

It's a bummer, but there's not much you can do about it.
 
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Dude, after making out with her , i started to slide my hand in her pants and she said she had her period. /about 30 min later before she left, she grabbed my hands, pull me towards and and start making out with me.

btw she did lose her phone, that the first thing she told me. But her voice mail works. What gets me is it seemed like the girl likes me, she told me to call her soon, ect.
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Why didnt you post this in the OP?
 
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